Insecurity loves the spotlight . When you standing in front of thousands of people or just looking in the mirror , that's when the insecurity creeps in . Insecurity is my biggest holdback and barrier . Insecurity is the diva who does everything to be in the center of attention . Once the insecurity creeps out and get a hook on you , she can be hard to shake of . But its not impossible to get free from it . Because you can do anything you want , just if you are willing to work for it . Work so hard that the insecurity let you be free.

 

 

 

If we all are honest to our self . I  am pretty sure that I am  not the only one that can confess that  insecurity ruled my life for a long time . And that forced me into an unhealthy road. At first I didn't do anything about it . I thought I couldn't dominant the insecurity that creeps up in my body when I tried to do anything or danced in front of the mirror . My insecurity told me that I didn't liked what I saw in the mirror . First I believed it.  The insecurity also told me that people around me didn't think I was anyone or someone who can succeed . All I was thinking about was to make everyone around me proud and happy.

 

When your goals is to have a job that is to create beautiful images , its pretty hard to not view yourself from someone else's eyes . And if you have the insecurity on your shoulders that are making you scared of what others may think of you , it can be hard to have that job . To have the thought that you never will be good enough as an eco in your back head every time you try to create something .

 

After having company with the insecurity in years and month . I finally turned my back and closed my eyes  . Of course I had a few people helping me with it . One person in Sweden who I don't have contact with anymore because he thought I need to fix that insecurity problem instead of running away from it and keep boxing in a wall made of stone and only get hurt . I also go help from a person in los angeles , who is now my coach . He saw the little insecurity devil on my shoulder at his dance class and made me believe in myself and be proud of that I am good in what I am doing . Not to hide my talent .

 

I have learnt that its never too late to make peace with miss insecurity and accept that she will be sitting on my shoulder sometimes , but I will not let her take over my life. If you take away all the negative side with being insecurity it also have some good sides .  Insecure People are often kind at heart in relationships. Trying to satisfied the expectations of others can be a positive thing , if its not take a to big part of your life so you will forget to please yourself. If we only give and give , then our inner beliefs fades away underneath that noisy insecurity in your back head.

 

So how do I get ride of the insecurity ? lets go back to basic and keep your focus on being authentic without fear. committing to being best doesn't have to be a big and dramatic gesture . practice is an progress over time and you become better ,little , by little . You don't have to be best right away . Don't bit yourself down because you didn't made it the first or the second time . keep going and don't let the insecurity take a bigger place in your life than it should .

 

When it comes to being unhealthy , its not the biggest enemy a bad diet . Its actually having bad thought about yourself that is the biggest enemy . So my optimal tip to be a healthy person is to clear your mind from all the toxic and excuses ,why you not can make your dreams come true. You lose so much personal power by looking outside yourself and measuring your´beauty , worth and value on what other people may think of you.

 

To be your best you need to make peace with your insecurity . Sometimes you maybe need some help from a friend or you need to find it by yourself. Miss insecurity will always have a little place in your life . You just need to decide how much and how its going to affect you .

 

Every human have a miss or a mister insecurity in them . From super models ,  dancers , till world leaders to the girl in the mirror. We all need to turn down the volume of miss or mister insecurity voice . Let your confidents take a bigger place